Interesting

Came across someone's blog and found some interesting quote in her blog... Feel like want to share with you all here...

'If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?'

'A good partner is like a four leaf clover, HARD TO FIND and LUCKY TO HAVE.'

'What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?'

'Nobody is perfect until you fall truly deeply in love with them.'

'Everything will be okay in the end.If it's not okay, then it's not the end.'

'It's better to be defeated on Principles than to win on lies.'

*wink*

Quote

Read CLEO last night, learn one quote from Jennifer Aniston..

'There're no regrets in life, just lessons'

Wow!! Just Wow!!! Meaningful!! Like it!! Love her!! *hehe*

My little thoughts

Second entry of the day...

I had the 'chance' to get to know lots of investment plan nowadays... I don't know why I'm always the target being 'persuaded' to join... Anyway... They invited you to join some kind of plan, something like investment, and promised you that you can surely earn BIG money and you can learnt a lot and blablabla... I don't know, if this kind of investment can so easily help people to earn BIG money, then everyone on this earth could be millionaire... I know once I'd joined, this so-called Sure-Can-Earn-Big-Money-Plan will stick with me, erm, should I say forever?? Ok, let's put it this way, a very long period of time... You see.. once you put certain amount of money in something, for sure you want something back, then you started to ask other people to join so that you can reach certain target to earn... So what does it means?? Asking others to put money so that I can earn?? Is this what we called selfish?? Ok no, because in this plan, we helped each other, we earn money together.. Possible?? I do not know... How will you feel when you ask your friend to put money and at the end, he/she couldn't get anything back, will you feel guilty?? Will you feel happy with the money you've earned after all?? This is my BIGGEST concerns... Some of you may not agree, but anyway...

I'm not saying that this kind of investment plan is not good.. Of course I know there're people who did very super duper successfully where they are now staying in big bungalow with 3 to 4 Mercedes parking inside... Congrats!! That's all I can say... It is true that there're certain people who are really 'talented' in this field... But I'm definitely NOT.. I'm just not interested in it.. I'm happy for you that you actually earned and learnt a lot from that plan... Wow!! Congrats again...

What I want to say is, no matter what job or what field you're in, you can earn and of course, you can learn... EARN, it is just the matter of less or more and it is all up to you how you want to relate your happiness with the amount of money you've earned, earn more means happier?? I don't really think so... And as for LEARN, we're learning everyday in our life, aren't we?? It is doesn't matter what field/job you are in... Everyone has their own interest, so just let them do what they feel comfortable with, ok?? You don't have to talk bad about other people's decision to prove that you're in the right decision... If your plan is really that POWERFUL, you just don't have to do so...

Another point is, I'm really SICK of people who purposely approach you, saying wanted to be friend with you and ended up with asking you to join this and that... Ok, it is ok if you just talked about it for once or twice, just to share, then when you found out the other party is actually not interested, you stopped but keep on keep in touch with them just like how you used to be... That is very good, it shows you respect and appreciate this friendship... BUT!! There're LOTS of people out there, approaching you, being very nice, sweet, helpful and friendly with you, then start introducing plan to you almost EVERTIME you all met up, found out you're not interested, DISAPPEARED or treat you like a stranger ever after!! This easily show how much you value this friendship... Is this what you called as F.R.I.E.N.D?? What you expect from someone who you called as a friend?? I thought you said you care for me, you wanted to help me and that is why you insist to ask me to join the plan?? So after I rejected your plan, you don't want or you don't know how to care and help me anymore?? As a friend, is that the way to show your care??

This is just not right... Please don't polluted the precious gifts given to us - F.R.I.E.N.D!!

Again, I'm not saying that this kind of plan is not good, as long as you do it in a right way, and you really get something out of it, I'm sure that everyone around you and even I myself feel very happy for you... But please, in a RIGHT way, thank you...

And also, most importantly, appreciate and treasure people who steps into your life... There're much more things in this world that can bring happiness and satisfaction in life, not only earning money...

'When you have love in your heart, you can see beauty in everything'

Congratulation!!

Read my friend's blog just now and I'm so happy for him that he owned a company now.. He has his own company now!! At this age!! Wow!! I'm so proud of him... Tho we are not that close but really, feel so happy for him... From the day I start chatting with him I know that he is someone very ambitious.. He has his own goal to achieve, he knows clearly about his direction, he got the PASSION in all these things that he does... Sooooo Gooood..!!

I want to learn from him..!!!!! Hehe...

*Clappssss* and *Thumbs Up* for him... *wink*

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First of all, I have to make it clear that this is not a sad entry...

That is part of my life, I can't erase it or delete it and I don't think I need to do so... It will always in my mind, in a small corner of my heart... Time flies huh... If we're still together, today is the day we happily and sweetly celebrate our 2nd year anniversary... But let's back to the reality, it doesn't allowed by the magic word - FATE... And guess what, I dreamt of him last night... What a coincidence huh... Haha~

In this 1 year plus after we broken up, on and off we did keep in touch with each other... I understand him in some way and same goes to, he knows me well in some way... During the outing with Annie and Thomas last friday, I told them I'm happy that my emotion will be not affected by him anymore... Is that a success that I had actually REALLY put things down or is that a failure that I can ONLY let it go after 1 year plus?? Anyway, I MADE IT!! Let's don't think about the duration of time being spent in this... I used the word 'spent' instead of 'wasted', cos I think it is worth and considered reasonable based on the deepness of love that I'd poured to him...

I have to admit that I pour my love to him too deep too fast...

It is pointless to keep on scratching or open up my scar/wound to see and think what is it that made me feel so pain and hurt... Things that you don't understand that time, you won't even understand it now... Things that made you feel pain and hurt that time, you shouldn't keep on thinking about it as it will only make your life miserable...

What hurt me the most is... Everyone around me already know that he is gonna break up with me anytime soon but yet, I'm so stupid enough to think of different ways to save this relationship... I'm happy when he told me that he still want us to be together when we compromise and talk things out face to face... I'm completely depressed when he told me that he wanted to end this relationship by using MSN... Until now also I couldn't forget the feeling, I can still feel the pain but the pain is not because of the relationship ends anymore but for myself... I feel pain for myself... I rather he said that to me right to my face... I felt like I'm fooled around... You might say that he did that because he don't want to see me hurt, but what I wanted to say is, it is your decision to end this relationship that HURTS...

Anyway, I'm ok now...

The moral of the story...

Once you had made the decision, you should have know what is the consequence of the decision, so, don't drag!! That will only bring more pain...

We had our sweet time together as well... I will always keep that in my mind... As for the bitter part, I will take it as a lesson...

Learn to forgive, but never forget...

He is a good guy and a caring friend...

Heard one song which is sang by Twins few days back through radio, it had been quite a long time I didn't listen to this song... Considered a song that accompany me through my hardest time... Made me reflesh back some of the memories... What a coincidence again...

Let it flow, Let it flow, I can't control so let it flow, Let it flow, Let it flow, I lost my soul, So I'll let it flow...

People change, things go wrong, but just remember that life still goes on...

Again, I'm not feeling sad...

I'm glad with what I have now... I feel contented and I will always treasure and appreciate my family and my lovely buddies...

Wish you all to have a nice and happy day!!

*wink*

Meaningful Quote

You have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you got, and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes, but never regret. People change, things go wrong, but just remember life still goes on..

I like this quote... *wink wink*

What a day!!

This is the first time I blog at home I guess.. As you all know, I won't online during weekend... It is ENOUGH for me to face the PC from monday to friday, from 8am to 6pm (and sometimes even until 8pm++).. I'm quite health-conscious also, I still want to protect my eyes, my health or my whatever that maybe affected as a consequence of facing the PC too often, for a long time.. That is not good!! And definitely not worth..

I'm on MC today.. Migraine.. The pain started from yesterday... I thought I will fainted anytime soon... And it became worst this morning, actually I was in dilemma this morning, in the crossroad of whether go to work or just rest at home... The reason I wanted to go to work is because I really got lots of work to follow up, I can't imagine how it will be if I skipped today's work... I will be in the war again tomorrow... And this proves me right when my colleagues called and said there're lots of people called me from morning until now... Should I feel happy for this?? Of course not... I'm sure 90% of the calls is to ask me this and that, to do this and that, chasing for payment, invoice, DO, PR, PO, drawings, status of this and that... blablabla and blablabla which includes things that I can expected as well as things that I cannot expect... And guess what, my manager called and asked me whether I'm comfortable to make some calls for him for the arrangement of the interview... Anyway... I'm the one who say 'ok' and willing to help him... Let's say... I'm kind... Haha *a forceful smile*

Another reason that I wanted to go to work is, I know they are all going to have a yummy and happy lunch today... How could I miss that??? Argh!!! I always enjoy the feeling being together with them, chit chatting with them and listening to them... I'm quite excited about it during the weekend and ended up with I'm sick and I'm working at home now... Must well I go to work, at least I can have yummy and wonderful lunch time with my colleagues.. Argh!!

I received my manager's mail already... Have to stop now...

Good day to everyone!!

And of course, thanks to the calls and sms'es' from you all... Thanks, really... *wink*

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It is 9am now.. Felt lazy, lazy and lazy... Hu~ Tho I don't really have an exact topic to talk about but still I wanted to blog something here... Please let me procrastinating a bit...

Everytime I chit chat with my colleagues about their gf, I always have a feeling that HOW COME ALL THE GOOD GUYS WERE TAKEN??!! HAR??!! Haha.. Really.. Conversation I had with one of my colleague yesterday and the things that I accidentally saw today proves this statement again... They're really too good to be true... Happy to see that, really, at least I know there're still good guys in this world and they're really sweet.. =)

They noticed that I'm quite moody these few days.. Tho I tried my very best not to let them discover my moodiness.. But they're really caring and sweet.. They talked to me, they asked me and I know they're trying to make me happy.. They shared some of their previous working experience with me, I know they're trying to give me some advice in a more indirect way... So sweet~

~Ying De Ren Bu Shao, Dan Shi Hui Man Zhu De Ren Hen Shao, Suo Yi Shu De Ren Hen Duo~

Fruiful Chat

Had a fruitful chat with my friend yesterday...

He taught me to think and see things from different perspective and you'll actually realise that things are not as worst as what we think.. You'll actually see the beauty side of everything...

He taught me to live, not for work, not for others, not for anything but for myself... We live for ourselves and also people that we love and care... For those who are not important in my life, why care??

He taught me not to be too care about something that you cannot control.. It is pointless to get mad or angry at something that you know you can't control..

He taught me not to take things too personally... Tho he 'sounds' like scolded you but think it in a way that, undeniable you're actually learnt something from it...

He taught me to have confident in myself and stay focus...

He taught me to be who I am, not who they want me to be...

He taught me to face all the challenges with an open heart instead of run away from it.. You can stand even stronger if you're able to go through all these...

He taught me to admit when it is my fault and if it is not my fault, i don't even have to argue, just voice out what I should voice out and if he still doesn't accept it, just keep quiet and laugh at his useless in my heart...

He taught me to see my own lifes in a 3rd party perspective to see what is right and what should be improve in my life...

He taught me to be dare enough to admit my weaknesses because this is the BEST way to improve... No one will laugh at you when you admitted your weaknesses and if they do, shame on them...

He taught me to believe in myself..

He taught me to learn, learn and non-stop learning..

He taught me not to let my emotion drives me...

Had another fruitful chat with another friend...

He taught me that problems are to be solved, not to 'fan' or 'haih' of it...

He taught me.. 'Ying de ren bu shao, dan shi hui man zhu de ren hen shao, suo yi shu de ren hen duo'

Blog this out is to remind myself always and also to all my buddies who may need this advices somehow someday...

I LOVE THIS!!! *Sooooooooooo Sweet*

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It is 7.43pm now and guess what?? I'm still working!! At this hour!! Argh!!! I should be enjoying my Japanese Food at Xenri OR Grabbing the chicken wings at Yuen with Annie's colleagues OR Chit chatting with my buddies at WongKok OR even prepare myself to go to sleep!!! And at last, ended up spending my evening with my messy tables and uncountable phone calls...

It is good in one way to have so many works to do, nobody wants to stay in the office and do nothing right.. It means I'm learning something... It means my company has good future and potential... It means I'm contributing something... But it is bad in another way which u can see it from my previous blogs.. Complaints and Frustration and Irritation... That is life I guess.. Whatever doesn't kill me makes me stronger... I strongly believe in that...

To be continued... I have to go now and it is 8pm now!!