Fruiful Chat

Had a fruitful chat with my friend yesterday...

He taught me to think and see things from different perspective and you'll actually realise that things are not as worst as what we think.. You'll actually see the beauty side of everything...

He taught me to live, not for work, not for others, not for anything but for myself... We live for ourselves and also people that we love and care... For those who are not important in my life, why care??

He taught me not to be too care about something that you cannot control.. It is pointless to get mad or angry at something that you know you can't control..

He taught me not to take things too personally... Tho he 'sounds' like scolded you but think it in a way that, undeniable you're actually learnt something from it...

He taught me to have confident in myself and stay focus...

He taught me to be who I am, not who they want me to be...

He taught me to face all the challenges with an open heart instead of run away from it.. You can stand even stronger if you're able to go through all these...

He taught me to admit when it is my fault and if it is not my fault, i don't even have to argue, just voice out what I should voice out and if he still doesn't accept it, just keep quiet and laugh at his useless in my heart...

He taught me to see my own lifes in a 3rd party perspective to see what is right and what should be improve in my life...

He taught me to be dare enough to admit my weaknesses because this is the BEST way to improve... No one will laugh at you when you admitted your weaknesses and if they do, shame on them...

He taught me to believe in myself..

He taught me to learn, learn and non-stop learning..

He taught me not to let my emotion drives me...

Had another fruitful chat with another friend...

He taught me that problems are to be solved, not to 'fan' or 'haih' of it...

He taught me.. 'Ying de ren bu shao, dan shi hui man zhu de ren hen shao, suo yi shu de ren hen duo'

Blog this out is to remind myself always and also to all my buddies who may need this advices somehow someday...