Be tough, my friend..

Got an sms from one of my dearie friend about her brokeup with her bf yesterday, early in the morning.. It's really a shocking news for me, they're doing good all these while, as far as I know.. I got up and straight go to her house and just to be with her.. I know she needs someone to talk to at this very moment.. To be with her, talk to her, I can only do this much for her..

Not gonna tell in detail what's going wrong in their relationship, but I'm really feel sad about it.. She has been haunted for years about her first relationship and at last, she finally come out from it and willing to accept another relationship but this is how it ends, unexpectedly..

She is very calm, tears do drops but she didn't cry like anything like what I expected.. She still can analyse things rationally but she couldn't hide the deep depression in her eyes.. But I know she'll be tough enough to go through this, I'm proud of you, really.. But also, she is too calm until I don't know how should I comfort her, but I guess what she needs now is not my comfort, its our support - silent support, to let her know I'll be with her whenever and wherever she needs me.. That's all I can do.. *sigh*

It's pointless to crack our head and think of different kind of reasons and possibilities that leads to this end, what if we find out the real reason? Does it helps? Not at all. Must well we use the time to plan and think for our better future, isn't? I do encourage her to express all her feelings out, all her negative feelings.. It's ok to let yourselves fall as long as you know to get yourselves up.. Best wishes to you, and always remember, you've me to support you and be with you all the time.. I miss your pretty smiling face.. =)

When I'm home after visited my dearie friend, I find out that we actually quite rational and mature when talking about this.. Maybe because we've grown up, we're mature enough to handle our certain emotions and feelings and problems.. We'll think how to solve the problem instead of keep stucking into the problem.. We'll think how to make ourselves happy instead of thinking how to curse ppl =p.. Is it a good thing?? I don't know.. Somehow, I feel that she is too rational, I'm kinda worry about her.. Hope she will be tough enough to go through this hard time..

Another thing is, another friend of mine told me about Circle of Lies, I think he is too pessimistic about relationship but anyway, everyone has their own perception and opinion on love and relationship.. I'll see how he will explain this when he commit into a relationship.. Wahaha..

What I want to say is, I got to know from him that one of my not-so-close friend got back together with her ex.. I don't know what you all will think about got back to your ex.. Is it possible?? Maybe you will want to give both of you another chance but if you're so love each other, why you want to break up in the first place.. You've given up the relationship so easily and I'm sure that must be something very SERIOUS until you want to give up the relationship.. It needs courage and involved lots of consideration to do so.. But now you want to get back and give you another chance.. Ridiculous.. I don't know.. Just ridiculous..

Never say LOVE if you never meant so and same goes to, Never say BREAKUP if you didn't want so.. It hurts..

All in all, appreciate the one who is by your side now.. Do whatever you can to make both of you stay stronger and stronger.. It depends on fate also but at least you tried.. Even if it is not a good ending, you wouldn't end it with regrets..

Best wishes to all of you, especially *YOU*.. Love you and there're not only me who'll love and support you always, I believe you'll know...

=)