I AM BACK!!

Hey hey... I AM BACK!!!!!

First of all, let me share a story which has actually inspired me in someway, and it is still helpful for me when I'm feeling down or helpless.. I read this story about 1 month ago and here it goes..

One day, A met C..
A: C, tell you what, I'm extremely hot now, B just called me idiot, how dare him call me idiot?
And A met D..
A: D, you know what D just called me? He call me idiot.. that is hurtful isn't? He said I'm IDIOT!!
And then.. he met E...
A: E, B said I'm idiot.. I'm so sad about it.. This is not fair, he said I'm IDIOT!!
And again, he met F...
A: F, I'm totally not in the mood now, B said I'm Idiot.. I'm feeling down now..
After a while, A met his Sifu..
A: Sifu, you know how rude is B? He said I'm idiot.. He is so rude.. I felt hurt.. He said I'm Idiot..
Sifu: But as far as I know, you called yourselves Idiot more than B called you..

The meaning behind this story is.. Never let someone's action/word influence yourselves so much, sometimes it's not what people said that hurts you, it's yourselves that keep it in your heart, keep repeating it and reminding yourself about it that made yourselves suffer.. Yea, very true.. It was like suddenly give myself a BANG and I was like, yea, why I want to make myself so suffer and upset?? It's my life and I shouldn't let others to influence my mood and to let myself down..

I gone through this story when I went to a temple about a month ago, there're many books in the rack but I chose that particular book and read this story.. Somehow, I think... Something outrageous guided me to choose the book and make me understand the meaning behind this story, for me to let go whatever is it that make myself down.. I should let it go, take things easy and live my life happily.. =)

And therefore, I tried not to think so much about the unhappy things that still happening once in a while, on and off, the golden finger, then unhelpful people that I met.. I'm sorry that I'm not gonna let them be the important character in my blog.. They're not gonna be the main topic for my blog anymore.. They're nothing in my life and perhaps, in their own life as well.. How shameful.. Anyway, that's the way they want to be so, good luck and btw, thanks for the lesson given..

My working life is so far so good, despite the bad attitude people that I met.. I'm quite ok with my job scope despite some doesn't-make-sense work that I've been assigned to, which I'm now still thinking how should I complete this task.. Anyway.. take things easy and take things easy.. This is what I'm learning as well.. Wish me luck pls... =)

When things go tough, fight harder!! ;)

See ya in the next post.. =p